In a perfect world, patriarchy and the traditional gender roles would be norm. The women pretty, handy, feminine while the Men strong, loving, masculine. The women would stay at home to take care of the house and the kids while the Men would be the main breadwinner. It would be normal that her needs and wants come last while His needs, wants, preferences would ALWAYS come first. He deserves a clean and comfortable home when He comes home from work and it is her duty to make sure her Husband comes home to a loving family. He would be the true leader of the house and she only needs to follow Him, no matter where He goes, whatever He says. She doesn't need to think, she just needs to follow.
She would be owned and it would be her sworn duty to make sure He's happy. Only when He's happy then she's happy, whatever it takes.